{"id":316,"date":"2021-03-04T14:49:30","date_gmt":"2021-03-04T14:49:30","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/louisalovegallas.com\/?p=316"},"modified":"2021-10-26T20:30:15","modified_gmt":"2021-10-26T20:30:15","slug":"nyt-comment-approved","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/louisalovegallas.com\/?p=316","title":{"rendered":"NYT: Comment Approved"},"content":{"rendered":"\n[et_pb_section fb_built=&#8221;1&#8243; _builder_version=&#8221;4.6.5&#8243;][et_pb_row _builder_version=&#8221;4.9.0&#8243; background_size=&#8221;initial&#8221; background_position=&#8221;top_left&#8221; background_repeat=&#8221;repeat&#8221; custom_padding=&#8221;|||4px||&#8221;][et_pb_column type=&#8221;4_4&#8243; _builder_version=&#8221;3.25&#8243; custom_padding=&#8221;|||&#8221; custom_padding__hover=&#8221;|||&#8221;][et_pb_text _builder_version=&#8221;4.6.5&#8243; background_size=&#8221;initial&#8221; background_position=&#8221;top_left&#8221; background_repeat=&#8221;repeat&#8221;]<!-- divi:paragraph -->\n<p>\u00a0<a data-testid=\"story-section\" href=\"https:\/\/www.nytimes.com\/section\/opinion\">Opinion<\/a><\/p>\n<div class=\"css-1vkm6nb ehdk2mb0\">\n<h1 id=\"link-478fbb48\" class=\"css-19rw7kf e1h9rw200\" data-test-id=\"headline\">How to Reach People Who Are Wrong<\/h1>\n<\/div>\n<p id=\"article-summary\" class=\"css-w6ymp8 e1wiw3jv0\">In the post-Trump era, research suggests the best ways to win people over.<\/p>\n<p>\u00a0<a href=\"https:\/\/www.nytimes.com\/2021\/03\/03\/opinion\/progressives-conservatives-think-again.html\">https:\/\/www.nytimes.com\/2021\/03\/03\/opinion\/progressives-conservatives-think-again.htm<\/a><\/p>\n<p><strong>Louisa Gallas | Michigan<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>The body talks!! I\u2019d like to add to this urgently important discussion: the body\u2019s role in approaching differences with each other. In my professional experience as therapist and mediator, most people haven\u2019t had the opportunity or motivation to study their physical reactivity, especially in challenging conversations. So many interpersonal interactions are driven by the body\u2019s knee jerk reactions and personal history\/ trauma. Mindfulness study teaches how to listen, to PAUSE when uncomfortable rather than forging ahead with a thought. It teaches that growing and moving ahead together in conversation is more important than \u2018winning\u2019. To ask questions. I hope the cognitive research on how to bridge our differences will consider the often nearly hard- wired responses of the body and its role in communication, especially tough interaction. Thank you.<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<!-- \/divi:paragraph -->[\/et_pb_text][\/et_pb_column][\/et_pb_row][\/et_pb_section]\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>\u00a0Opinion How to Reach People Who Are Wrong In the post-Trump era, research suggests the best ways to win people over. \u00a0https:\/\/www.nytimes.com\/2021\/03\/03\/opinion\/progressives-conservatives-think-again.htm Louisa Gallas | Michigan The body talks!! I\u2019d like to add to this urgently important discussion: the body\u2019s role in approaching differences with each other. 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